Nice... Still working on it...

willing to wait...

waiting is a term used by the patient. Ordinarily, relativity only matters to words such as love, compassion, greed, good, bad, ugly, pretty, nice, superior et. al. It seems that no one can really encapsulate these terms. So, there comes chaos... to understand somthing that can never be understood... to put words in other people's mouths and tell them that this is love or that is caring or that is bad and this is good. Such chaos is brought by people having differnt levels of understanding...in terms of feeling, knowing and acting. It is also clear that every person has his or her own belief pattern system wherein, past experiences or new experiences are embedded in their definition of their relitively mattered terms. But even with people proclaiming that they are living their own life and following their own pattern in life, it is not safe to say that they are free from any social clause or any social capsule. It is in their interaction now that predetermines how they can act in a society.

The only possible thing to do is wait...although it might depend on how the people look at it... but it is determined how you like it to be. how should life be like?... who spins it?... who wills it?... who lives it?

Waiting is the only thing I can do... but the problem is how long am i willing to wait?

posted by Zaki @ 8/27/2006 08:47:00 PM Comments: 0

Take this for example...

Many couples don’t know how to have healthy arguments, for often the woman does all the talking and complaining, and the man detaches himself. Nothing is achieved and the same row is repeated a week later.
Many women need to learn to argue constructively in order to reduce a man’s fears. Avoid the use of negative language, guilt, repetition of past mistakes and use of phrases starting with “You always......” or “You never......” Instead talk about how you feel, indicating your role in the problem. Even if you think it is his fault, all the blame should not be put on him.

After the contrasting viewpoints have been put, it is a good tactic to suggest a compromise even if you still feel in right.

posted by Zaki @ 8/21/2006 08:34:00 PM Comments: 1

Just tell me...

Tell me you hate me

With me you're always blue.

It hurts when you don't tell me,

You know I suffer too.

Just tell me you're crying

and with me you'll feel so low.

Just tell me you don't love me,

and softly, I'll let you go.

posted by Zaki @ 8/21/2006 12:55:00 AM Comments: 0

just thinking

We try and reconcile the different problems present in society...we always take part in prevention of infringement and promotion of rights of people....that everyone is entitled to be the best that he or she can be...One thing bothers me though, why do we always come up with the wrong diagnosis for a particular problem... a great example is women trafficking.

In trafficking of women, we always try and put them in a box where they are molded to become export quality goods. Issue number one is, why do these women engage in such outgoing activities? One, maybe they are so uptight with the present shape of society that they want to have better lives. Two, in another perspective, they might be forced to do such horrid things. And three, the more unusual one is that they like to do it...plain and simple.

It all boils down now to commodification of women present in our times... we try and put them with labels. They become products waiting to be picked up...they are being presented well as if they are advertised as for them to be sold more...just for the purpose to satisfy carnal desires.

At often times, we pity these people...we put them down...we despise and we brand them as people deprvied of moral ascendancy. We never quite get the point that these people are the ones being hurt...deprived...used and abused.

What did the society do to them? obviously, criminalize these people...but it was never their intention to be against societal rules...they are just victims of ignorance and deceit.

The smile of the clown is there for people to see and to laugh at...and it will always be there. We could never see the clown's mar unless we smudge away the smile of the clown and see if the clown is happy to what he is doing.

posted by Zaki @ 8/20/2006 11:56:00 PM Comments: 0