Very Insulting Non verbal Communication
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On the idea of non verbal behavior. Most of the time when people want to show what they are feeling, they usually express it through words.
But some people when you try and ask them if your okay with them, they would answer yes but act a different way. It is useless for one to assume that everything is back to normal when the way one acts is not in congruency to what one says. To know if something is understood, we need to understand first.
It is very hard for me to comprehend that one has the guts to refuse the things which you have given. Even better, at times it is easier for her to voice out things that are even the other way around. The worse thing about that is she tells it to other people. I try to be complacent about her doings because she is always at the losing end.
She is a very good talker but not a very good doer. When she says she's fine but when confronted does not speak and looks at you from head to toe looking for flaws that she might hinge on and attack on.
This is what I get from her non verbal communication. She says that it's okay. But bodily movements, motives and her actions speak a really different language. WHY IS IT SO HARD TO JUST ACCEPT? I pity her...its not because I hate her but because I still care for her well being. I hope she will change in the future...where I am not present.
posted by Zaki @ 8/07/2005 11:53:00 PM
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